Listen up, I ain’t no fancy talker or nothing, but I know a thing or two about figuring out how a fella feels about ya. You don’t need no fancy cards or some crystal ball to tell ya, just use your noggin.
First off, look at how he treats ya. Does he listen when you talk? Does he remember the little things, like how you like your coffee? If he’s always got his eyes on ya, smiles when you walk in the room, and makes time for you, well, that’s a good sign, ain’t it?
- He remembers what you tell him.
- He looks at you a lot.
- He makes you a priority.
Now, if he’s always busy, forgets your birthday, and doesn’t seem to care much about what you say, then maybe he ain’t feelin’ it so much. Actions speak louder than words, or so they say.
Don’t go askin’ his buddies what he thinks, that’s just askin’ for trouble. They’ll tell ya what they think you wanna hear or what’ll stir up the pot. Just watch him and how he acts.
Another thing, don’t be callin’ him every five minutes or showin’ up at his place unexpected. Give him some space, let him come to you. If he’s interested, he’ll find a way to be around.
And for goodness sake, don’t be tryin’ to change yourself to make him like you. If he don’t like ya for who you are, then he ain’t worth your time. Be yourself, be strong, and don’t take no nonsense from nobody.
Sometimes, you just gotta trust your gut. You know, that feeling you get in your stomach when something ain’t right? Listen to it. If you feel like he’s bein’ genuine, then maybe he is. But if somethin’ feels off, don’t ignore it.
Now, I ain’t sayin’ these things are foolproof, but they’ll give ya a good idea of where ya stand. And if you’re still not sure, then maybe just ask him straight up. It’s better to know the truth, even if it ain’t what you wanna hear. Life’s too short for playin’ games.
Remember, you’re worth more than chasin’ after someone who don’t appreciate you. Find someone who makes you happy, someone who treats you right, and don’t settle for anything less.
So, there you have it. No need for fancy cards or crystal balls. Just use your common sense and pay attention. You’ll figure it out, I know you will. You’re a smart gal.
Now go on, get out there and live your life. Don’t spend all your time worryin’ about what some fella thinks. You’re too good for that.
Tags: Feelings, Relationships, Advice
