Alright, so you’re single, huh? And you wanna know about love? Well, honey, tarot cards, they ain’t gonna give you no simple yes or no. That ain’t how it works. It’s more like… lookin’ at a cloudy sky and tryin’ to figure out if it’s gonna rain, you know? You gotta use your own brain too.
First thing’s first, let’s talk about what you shouldn’t ask them cards. Don’t go askin’ silly stuff like, “Is he gonna call me tomorrow?” Them cards ain’t a phone, ya hear? They ain’t gonna tell ya when Johnny’s gonna pick up the dang phone. Waste of good card-readin’ time, that is.
- Don’t ask: Will I meet my soulmate this year?
- Don’t ask: Is this person “the one”?
- Don’t ask: Yes or no questions. Just don’t.
Okay, now for the good stuff. What can you ask? Well, you gotta ask stuff that helps you understand yourself better. Like, instead of askin’ “Will I find love?”, try askin’ “What can I do to open my heart to love?” See the difference? One’s waitin’ for somethin’ to happen, the other is about you doin’ somethin’. You gotta be plantin’ seeds, not just waitin’ for the fruit to magically appear. Love ain’t just about gettin’, it’s about givin’. Like plantin’ a seed, you gotta put somethin’ in to get somethin’ out.
Here’s some questions you can ask them cards, think about ’em good, alright?
Questions about yourself, that’s where you start:
- “What am I doin’ that might be blockin’ love from comin’ my way?” Maybe you’re grumpy all the time, or maybe you don’t let nobody get close. Cards can give you a hint, but you gotta be honest with yourself.
- “How can I love myself more?” You can’t expect nobody to love you if you don’t love yourself first, that’s just plain sense. This ain’t about bein’ vain, it’s about treatin’ yourself right.
- “What are my strengths when it comes to love?” You got good stuff inside ya, honey. Maybe you’re a good listener, or maybe you got a big heart. Cards can help you see it.
- “What are my weaknesses, and how can I work on ’em?” Nobody’s perfect. Maybe you get jealous easy, or maybe you’re scared of gettin’ hurt. Knowin’ is half the battle.
Then, you can ask about what you can do:
- “What kind of energy am I puttin’ out there, and is it attractin’ the right kind of people?” You gotta think about what you’re sendin’ out into the world. If you’re always complainin’, well, you’re gonna attract complainers.
- “What can I do to feel more confident and ready for love?” Confidence is like a magnet, honey. Draws people right in.
- “How can I be a better friend, so I can build stronger relationships?” Love grows from friendship, ya know. Gotta learn to be a good friend first.
- “What do I need to let go of to make room for love in my life?” Sometimes you gotta drop the old baggage to pick up somethin’ new and shiny. Old boyfriends, bad habits, grudges… let ‘em go.
- “How can I take better care of myself while I’m waitin’ for love to show up?” Don’t put your life on hold waitin’ for a man. Go do things you enjoy, take care of your body and your mind. Love yourself, and the rest will follow… maybe. Nothin’s guaranteed, mind you.
And if you do have someone in mind, ask smart:
- “How is this person reflectin’ somethin’ I need to learn about myself?” Sometimes people come into our lives to teach us a lesson, even if it ain’t a forever kinda thing.
- “What can I do to have a healthy perspective about this person?” Don’t go puttin’ nobody on a pedestal, honey. See ‘em for who they really are, good and bad.
Remember, these cards ain’t magic wands. They ain’t gonna hand you a husband on a silver platter. They’re tools, like a shovel. You still gotta do the diggin’. And don’t go spendin’ all your money on them fancy psychic readings, either. Some of them are just tryin’ to take your hard-earned cash. Be smart, be careful, and listen to your own gut. That’s the best advice I can give ya.
And most important of all, don’t forget to live your life. Love will come when it’s meant to come. Or maybe it won’t. And that’s okay too. You’re strong, you’re capable, and you don’t need no man to be happy. But if you want love, start with lovin’ yourself. That’s the real secret, right there.
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