Alright, let’s talk about this “are we meant to be together tarot spread”, you know, the one them fancy folks use to figure out if they gonna stick together like glue or fall apart like a sack of potatoes.
What is this thing anyway?
Well, from what I gather, it’s a way to use them tarot cards, you know, the picture cards, to see if two people are a good match. Not like matching socks, mind you, but like, if they gonna be happy together for the long haul. Like if they gonna be fightin’ like cats and dogs or sittin’ on the porch swing holdin’ hands when they get old and wrinkly.
I ain’t never used these cards myself. We didn’t have such things when I was growin’ up. Back then, you knew if you were meant to be with someone by how they treated you and how hard they worked. But these young folks, they like these fancy ways of figurin’ things out. So, this spread, it’s like a puzzle they lay out with them cards, and each card tells a story about the relationship.
How do they do it?
Now, I ain’t no expert, but from what I heard, they shuffle them cards and lay ’em out in a special way. Some folks use three cards, some use seven, some even use more. It’s all the same to me, just a bunch of pictures. But each spot in that layout means somethin’ different.
- One card might be about the past, like how you two met or what baggage you bringin’ to the table. You know, like if you had a mean old ex or if you always been a bit of a handful, like my Billy was when he was a boy, always chasin’ chickens.
- Another card might be about the present, like how things are goin’ right now. Are you fightin’ all the time? Or are you sweet as pie to each other? Are you helpin’ each other out or just lookin’ out for yourself? You know, the real nitty-gritty of everyday life.
- And then there’s the future card, or maybe a few future cards. That’s where they try to see if you gonna stick it out or if you gonna go your separate ways. Now, I don’t hold much stock in seein’ the future, but folks seem to like it. It’s like looking at the weather forecast, sometimes it’s right, sometimes it ain’t.
Some folks say there’s a card that shows if you got that real spark, that fire in your belly for each other. And another one might show if you got the same goals in life, you know, if you both want that little house with the white picket fence and a couple of kids, or if one of you wants to travel the world and the other just wants to stay put and grow tomatoes. My old man, he just wanted to grow tomatoes, God rest his soul.
Does it really work?
Now, that’s the million-dollar question, ain’t it? I reckon it depends on what you mean by “work”. If you think them cards gonna tell you exactly what to do, like some kinda magic eight ball, well, you might be disappointed. But if you use ‘em to think about your relationship, to really look at what’s workin’ and what ain’t, then maybe they can be helpful. It’s like lookin’ in a mirror, sometimes you see things you don’t like, but it’s better to see ‘em than to pretend they ain’t there.
The World Card and Whatnot
I heard someone talkin’ about a card called “The World”. Sounds mighty important, don’t it? They said it means you’ve come to the end of somethin’, like a whole chapter in your life is finished. And that’s good, ‘cause it means you’re ready to start somethin’ new. Like when you finish plantin’ the corn, you can start thinkin’ about the harvest. But if that card is upside down, they say it means you’re stuck, like a mule in mud. Can’t move forward, can’t move backward, just plain stuck.
And this three-card spread they talk about, sounds simple enough. Past, present, and future. Like lookin’ at where you been, where you are, and where you goin’. Makes sense to me, even if I don’t use no fancy cards to do it. I just use my good ol’ common sense. And let me tell you, common sense ain’t so common these days.
So, if you’re wonderin’ if you and your sweetheart are meant to be together, you can try this tarot spread thing. Or you can just sit down and have a good long talk. Maybe ask your grandma, she’s seen a thing or two. But remember, at the end of the day, it’s up to you two to decide if you wanna make it work. Cards can’t do that for you. Just like them cards can’t hoe the garden or bake a decent apple pie.
It all boils down to hard work and understandin’, just like plantin’ seeds and watchin’ ‘em grow. You gotta water ‘em, give ‘em sunshine, and pull out the weeds, or nothin’ good’s gonna come of it.
The Seven-Card Spread and Other Fancy Stuff
Now, some folks get real fancy with it. They use seven cards, and each one tells a different part of the story. Like, what you want from the relationship, what the other person wants, what’s bringin’ you together, what’s pullin’ you apart, all that kinda stuff. Seems like a lot of fuss to me, but hey, if it helps ‘em, more power to ‘em.
And sometimes, them cards don’t give you a straight answer. They might just point out problems, like if one of you is tryin’ to be the boss all the time. Or if you just ain’t willin’ to bend a little. Relationships are like dancin’, you gotta learn to move together, or you’ll just end up steppin’ on each other’s toes.
So, whether you use three cards, seven cards, or no cards at all, remember that love ain’t easy. It takes work, it takes patience, and it takes a whole lot of forgiveness. And sometimes, even when you try your best, it just ain’t meant to be. And that’s okay too. There are plenty of fish in the sea, as they say. Though, I always preferred catfish myself.
So that’s the gist of it, as best as I can understand. This “are we meant to be together tarot spread”. It’s just another way folks try to figure out this crazy thing called love. Me? I think a good home-cooked meal and a little bit of kindness go a long way. But then again, what do I know? I’m just an old woman who’s seen a thing or two.
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