Alright, let’s talk about this whole Chiron in Taurus in the 7th house thing. I’ve been digging into it, and let me tell you, it’s been a journey.
So, I started by noticing some patterns in my relationships. It felt like I kept hitting the same walls, experiencing the same disappointments. I was like, “Why does this keep happening?” It was frustrating, to say the least. Then, someone mentioned astrology, and I thought, “Why not?” I started looking into my birth chart and found this thing: Chiron in Taurus in the 7th house. I had no idea what it meant, but it sounded important.
I started reading up on it. Chiron, apparently, is all about our deepest wounds and how we can heal them. Taurus is about stability, values, and self-worth. And the 7th house? That’s the house of partnerships, relationships, and how we relate to others. When I put it all together, it was like a lightbulb went off.
The first thing I did was to really look at my past relationships. I mean, really look at them. I started journaling about them, trying to understand what went wrong, what my role was, and what patterns I could identify. It wasn’t easy. Some of those memories were painful to revisit, but I knew I had to do it if I wanted to heal.
- Acknowledging the Pain: First step was simply acknowledging that yeah, I’ve been hurt in relationships. And it’s okay to admit that.
- Journaling: I started writing down my thoughts, feelings, and experiences related to past relationships. This helped me see things more clearly.
- Identifying Patterns: I started to notice patterns in my behavior and the types of people I was attracted to. It wasn’t always pretty.
Then came the hard part: figuring out how to heal. I learned that a big part of this Chiron placement is about learning to value myself, to understand my own worth, regardless of what others think or say. That was a tough one. I realized I had been seeking validation from others for a long time, and it had led me down some pretty messy paths. I also had some deep wounds from my parents’ divorce. It was hard to accept that I might be avoiding close relationships because of that.
Working Towards Healing
So, I started working on that. I started with small things, like saying “no” to things I didn’t want to do, setting boundaries in my relationships, and trying to be more kind to myself. It sounds simple, but it was a big shift for me. It was like learning a whole new language, the language of self-love and self-respect. One of the key things I did was to really focus on creating a stable and supportive home life for myself.
- Setting Boundaries: Learning to say “no” and protecting my energy was crucial. It wasn’t easy, but it was necessary.
- Self-Love Practices: I started doing things that made me feel good about myself, like taking care of my physical health, pursuing hobbies, and spending time alone.
- Therapy: I even started seeing a therapist to work through some of the deeper issues. It was tough, but it helped a lot.
- Building a Supportive Environment: I focused on creating a peaceful and nurturing home where I could feel safe and secure.
- Creating a Chosen Family: I realized I could build a community of friends who felt like family. This was incredibly healing.
And you know what? It started to work. Slowly but surely, I started to feel more confident, more secure in myself. My relationships started to improve, too. I was able to attract people who treated me with respect, and I was able to show up in those relationships in a much healthier way. I started to be more nurturing and loving towards myself, which made a huge difference.
It’s not like everything is perfect now. I still have my moments, my insecurities, my triggers. But I have the tools to deal with them now. I know how to recognize when I’m falling into old patterns, and I know how to pull myself out of them. I embrace my vulnerabilities now and see them as strengths, not weaknesses.
This whole experience has taught me so much about myself, about relationships, and about healing. It’s been a tough journey, but I wouldn’t trade it for anything. If you’re dealing with something similar, my advice is to be patient with yourself, to be kind to yourself, and to keep learning and growing. It’s a process, but it’s so worth it.
