Well, hello there. You wanna know about love, huh? And them tarot cards? Alright, alright, I’ll tell ya what I know. It ain’t no fancy city talk, just plain speakin’, like you and me sittin’ on the porch swing, sippin’ sweet tea.
So, you got questions about love. Everybody does, honey. It’s the biggest thing in life, bigger than a prize-winning pumpkin at the county fair. But you gotta ask the right way, see? Can’t just go blabberin’ anything to them cards. They ain’t no fortune teller machine at the carnival, you know. You gotta be smart about it.
First off, don’t ask them “yes” or “no” questions. Them cards, they ain’t good at that. It’s like askin’ a mule if it wants carrots or apples – it’ll just stare at ya. You gotta ask open-ended stuff, the kind that gets the cards talkin’, like a good gossip session with your best gal pal.
For example, instead of askin’ “Will I find love?”, you gotta ask somethin’ like, “What can I do to bring love into my life?”. See the difference? One’s like a dead end, the other’s like a open road, leadin’ you somewhere.
- Ask about yourself, like “How am I feelin’ about this fella?” or “What do I need to do to feel good about myself?” Love ain’t just about findin’ someone, it’s about bein’ ready for it, like bakin’ a cake – you gotta have all the right ingredients first.
- Ask about what you can do, not what the other person will do. You can’t control that fella, no matter how much you want to. You can only control yourself. So ask things like, “How can I be a better friend?”, or “What can I do to make this relationship stronger?”
- Ask about your good parts. Like, “What good things do I bring to a relationship?” Don’t be shy! You got good things, honey. Everybody does. Gotta know what they are, so you can shine like a new penny.
- And yeah, ask about the tough stuff too. “What things am I scared of?” or “What do I need to work on?” Nobody’s perfect, not even that prize-winning pumpkin. You gotta know your weeds, so you can pull ‘em out.
Now, let’s talk about them fancy cards some. You get that Lovers card, that’s good. That’s like findin’ a four-leaf clover in the pasture. Means true love, the real deal. And if you see that Sun card with it, well, honey, that’s like sunshine and rainbows, smooth sailin’ all the way. The Empress? That’s like a bountiful harvest, maybe even a little one on the way! And that Hierophant fella? He’s talkin’ about marriage, settlin’ down, buildin’ a home.
But listen here, love ain’t always easy. Sometimes that Lovers card comes with the Devil card, that sneaky fella. That means you gotta love without changin’ the other person, and without them tryin’ to change you. It’s like acceptin’ a crooked fence post – it might not be perfect, but it still holds up the fence. Can you love someone, warts and all? That’s the question.
So, instead of sayin’ “Should I do this?” or “Should I do that?”, try sayin’ “What would happen if I did this?” See? It’s like lookin’ at all the roads on a map, instead of just starin’ at one. Gives you more to think about, more choices.
Here’s some other questions you can ask, plain and simple, just like I’m tellin’ ya:
About findin’ love:
- “What kind of person would be good for me?”
- “Where can I go to meet someone special?”
- “What do I need to do to be ready for love?”
About a fella you already like:
- “What can I do to make this relationship better?”
- “What are his good qualities?”
- “What are the challenges we might face?”
About yourself:
- “What are my best qualities as a partner?”
- “What do I need to work on to be a better partner?”
- “How can I love myself more?”
Remember, them tarot cards ain’t gonna tell you everything. They’re like a wise old grandma, givin’ you some guidance, some things to think about. But you gotta make your own choices, walk your own path. And when it comes to love, honey, you just gotta follow your heart, and maybe listen to them cards just a little bit.
Love’s a journey, not a destination. Like drivin’ down a long country road, enjoyin’ the scenery along the way. Don’t be in such a hurry to get there that you miss all the pretty wildflowers.
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